Attraction

Its funny how we notice the major differance between what men and women think as far as attraction goes. Are we attracted to certain traits and qualities because we feel we have imprinted into ourselves by society or by our peers around us, or is there more. With guys you typically think we're attracted to tits n ass, pretty face, etc. With women you typically think, well built, rich, big dick, etc. How often do we see beyond that. I know a good percentage of women look beyond that and look for substance in a guy. Not a high percentage, but more than the men. I havent bumped into many men who think like that and look beyond what we are grown up and impaled into our thinking as far as whats we are attracted to.  I've had that stage where I was drawn to tits n ass when i was early highschool, as are most guys are.  Not sure when I grew up, but Ive notice a huge differnce when i see a girl now than back then.  Latly I feel what attracts me to a woman now is how she presents herself.  How she talks, her confidence, statue, how she is and her potential if she was in a relationship with me. Then the sex thoughts kick in. lol. 
   I just wish more and more people would think outside the box instead of what's implanted into them. More openminded people.